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Question #90346 posted on 09/13/2017 8:50 p.m.

Dear 100 Hour Board,

I've been on four dates with one guy. Never before have I ever been on more than two with the same person so this is incredibly exciting! My question is, what is the average amount of dates that two separate people will go on together before becoming exclusive?

~ Synneva


Dear you,

Kirito below is probably right that there's a huge variance, but at four, at least in Provo, I'd guess that you could be close-ish. In my head once you hit 3 dates with someone there's like "something" there.

~Anne, Certainly


Dear Synneva,

Sometimes it could be close to 20 (speaking from experience). Other times it could be zero (not speaking from experience, but I know people).

What really matters is not the number of dates, but how the DTR goes. Best of luck!