Dear 100 Hour Board,
Who was in the wrong: Ross or Rachel
-WE WERE ON A BREAK!!!!1!!!1+
First, yes, Ross genuinely thought they were broken up.
But second, I would say that Ross is wholeheartedly worse than Rachel. His attempt to have an anniversary celebration AT HER OFFICE when she explicitly said she couldn't do that? Grinding pepper while she was on a call? Setting papers on fire? I wouldn't be able to handle that either.
In general, Ross treats women poorly, and it's consistently shown through the series that he believes he deserves the women he goes out with regardless of his actions.
In that situation, Ross is in the wrong for caring about what Rachel thought. He sincerely thought they were on a break and her unforgiving reaction should’ve been enough for him to stop having such an attachment to a person who would not give him the benefit of the doubt.
-theyre both the worst