Happiness often sneaks in through a door you didn't know you left open. -John Barrymore
Question #19302 posted on 10/01/2005 3:13 a.m.

Dear Tortured Fiance,

In regard to Board Question #19118

My husband had an identical background when I married him, so I understand what you're feeling. He really will not think of those things that are in his past; he will not compare you to anyone he has been with before. If you want to talk to someone who went through it already and has come to peace with her husband's past, you can shoot me an email as well.

karalyn_s at yahoo dot com

- Been There